Male Sex Toys NZ
You deserve nice things, too. Instead of relying on a flimsy piece of plastic that looks like a last-minute cart addition, upgrade your grown-up toy to one of Fansycake’s premium male sex toys in NZ.
We design each product with the same attention to quality, aesthetics, and user experience that you'd expect from any other luxury product in your life because modern masculinity includes treating yourself well—especially in private.
Browse a gentleman’s starter pack below.



The Fansycake Difference
Turns out, women actually know a thing or two about what feels good, and we’ve applied that knowledge to creating premium sex toys for men that deliver on their promises. Our woman-centred approach to male wellness, the same philosophy that’s made our female sex toy collection so successful, means you’re getting products designed with a genuine understanding of pleasure principles, not just whatever some bloke in a boardroom thinks might work.
Every toy in our collection is elegant and discreet enough to leave on your bedside table and not horrify your mum if she accidentally spots it during a surprise visit. The easy-to-clean body-safe silicone also ensures you won’t have to labour over the sink with long cleaning sessions after each self-care moment.
Plus, our packaging is so discreet that even your postie won’t get traumatised—just quick and easy delivery to your door, putting our products in your hands as soon as possible. We’ve basically solved all the problems that make buying male sex toys awkward, uncomfortable, or embarrassing because quality pleasure shouldn’t come with a side of anxiety.

You Deserve More Than Just a Wank
Let’s be real; you probably already know how to get yourself off. But pair that with a men’s sex toy, and you’ll be taking your self-care to a whole new level—investing in your pleasure isn’t selfish; it’s sensible.
From stress relief that makes meditation look like amateur hour to health benefits that go beyond the obvious, this kind of self-care routine doesn't involve cucumber face masks or expensive skincare rituals.
And for those in relationships, a vibrator isn’t the competition; couple sex toys are your secret weapon for becoming an even better partner.
Awkward Questions Answered
Is it normal to use sex toys as a man?
Is it normal to use sex toys as a man?
Yes! What’s weird is that we still need to have this conversation in this day and age. Somewhere along the way, society decided that blokes should be content with their hand and a bit of imagination while women get to explore entire aisles of pleasure products.
Think about it: you wouldn’t drink instant coffee if you could afford the good stuff, so why would you stick with the bare minimum when you deserve pleasure from a male sex toy that matches the quality you expect in every other area of your life?
So yes, it's completely normal. What's abnormal is settling for less when better options exist.
How do I choose the right toy for me?
How do I choose the right toy for me?
Before you dive off the deep end of the pleasure pool, think about what gets your motor running. Do you like things fast and intense, or do you prefer to take the scenic route and enjoy the experience?
External vibrators are straightforward, versatile, and perfect for enhancing what you’re already doing. Internal vibrators, on the other hand, are for the adventurous gents ready to explore the wonders of prostate stimulation.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, contact our customer service team. We won't make you feel like a teenager buying condoms for the first time. We're here to help you make an informed decision on men’s sex toys in NZ, not judge your choices.
Can I use lube with men’s sex toys?
Can I use lube with men’s sex toys?
Absolutely. Think of lube as adding premium oil to a high-performance engine; it makes everything run smoother, last longer, and feel infinitely better.
Since our premium male sex toys in NZ are made from body-safe silicone, you’ll want to stick with water-based lubricants that are easy to clean up and won’t damage your investment. Start with less than you think you need; a little goes a long way, and you can always add more, but you can't put it back.